If You Love Her Enough

My friend John always has something to tell me. He knows so much that young men have to have older and more worldly wise men to tell them. For instance who to trust, how to care for others, and how to live life to the fullest. Recently, John lost his wife Janet. For eight years she fought against cancer, but in the end her sickness had the last word. One day John took out a folded piece of paper from his wallet. He had found it, so he told me, when he tidied up some drawers at home.

It was a small love letter Janet had written. The note could look like a school girl’s scrawls about her dream guy. All that was missing was a drawing of a heart with the names John and Janet written in it. But the small letter was written by a woman who had had seven children; a woman who fought for her life and who probably only had a few months left to live. It was also a beautiful recipe for how to keep a marriage together. Janet’s description of her husband begins thus: “Loved me. Took care of me. Worried about me.” Even though John always had a ready answer, he never joked about cancer apparently. Sometimes he came home in the evening to find Janet in the middle of one of those depressions cancer patients so often get. In no time he got her into the car and drove her to her favorite restaurant. He showed consideration for her, and she knew it. Continue reading “If You Love Her Enough”


Invitation to our Covenant Masses

Each month on the 18th we gather at the Shrine to celebrate the Covenant of Love with Mary. It is a time to come together as a family and share our life of faith with one another. All are welcome to come and share in the life of the Shrine.

As we journey toward 2015 – the celebrtion of 100 years of the covenant made by Fr. Kentenich in 1914 – we prepare with differnent theme – this year we celebrate the “Year of the Father”. Each mass will take up a theme looking at an aspect of the life of faith of Fr. Kentenich.

For a list of masses, the themes, the groups preparing them and the priest who will be preaching – click here